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You fail miserably.~
$n fails miserably.~
You tell $N that you failed miserably.~
$n tells $N that $e failed miserably.~
$n tells you that $e failed miserably.~
Who should know this?~
You mutter to yourself about being a complete and utter failure.~
$n mutters to $mself about being a complete and utter failure.~